ruginye laaa aku tadek beruang ted ni ha.
i'm a huge fan of advice,
both in giving and receiving em.
and the other day zedi told me this;
"...hal kawen ni mi, mesti rugi.
once ko da kawen nanti, one of
these things will surely happen;
samade ko rase rugi tak kawen dari dulu,
ataupon ko akan rase rugi gile sebab kawen.
so in both cases, akan rugi macam mane pon..."
ermmm, thanks a lot man, thanks a lot.
that's possibly the best non-advice
i have ever received in my whole life haha!
This made me laugh real hard.
ReplyDeleteBut...
As for me, I have no regrets. I think it happened just at the time that I needed someone most.
Well, you do wonder, what it would be like if it happened sooner, but naah, no regrets or rasa rugi.
Maybe because I always believe things happen for a reason, things happen when they happened because of the things that happened before. Ha, boleh faham tak ayat tu?
It's butterfly effect.
Like for me, I think;
If I met my husband a few years sooner, maybe I won't appreciate him as I do now.
Well, to each their own.
But there are truths in the statement.
I would rather say it as pros and cons.
For example;
Now I can't sleep with wudu' like when I was single because my husband will hold me hand and of course batal wudu'.
(I am not saying I do it all the time when I was single - it was merely an example)
Now I can't see my mother as often as before.
Pros;
Everytime I look at my husband with love, granted pahala for me.
It is just the way you look at things to make it positive or negative.
I would prefer to think positive.
Negative things never ends and it is a waste of energy to think that way, no?
easy for you to say, you're hitched! LOL
Deletebut on a serious note, im glad to see
that you view things in a decent manner.
i really like that thought of perhaps not
appreciating your husband had the timing
been different, so that's a great thing to hear.
by that logic, had i not met my ex's before,
then maybe that means i would think they
were great and not crazy psycho bitches.
hahaha jahat aku! astaghfirullah.
Hahaha..
DeleteTo me, when the time comes, you will understand why things happen (Though not all things can be understand because well, we are humans)
There are a lot of things that only made sense only after years passed.
That's how we learn, I think.
=)
"by that logic, had i not met my ex's before,
then maybe that means i would think they
were great and not crazy psycho bitches.
hahaha jahat aku! astaghfirullah."
No worries. Most people have grudges and think badly of their exes. Haha. That's why they're ex, right?
muahaha!
Deletebut no, on a serious note,
i dont bear ill feelings towards the exs.
im just relieved that they've gone on
to live their lives and hopefully found
someone who is more suitable for them.
...that's code for "im happy i've dodged a bullet!"
ROTFL